**This post was written in February during ED awareness week**
This week, from February 24th to March 2nd, happens to be Eating Disorder Awareness week – coinciding nicely with my project! So while lately my posts have focused on one specific treatment method, I thought I would switch things up a little bit and write about some common myths and misconceptions often associated with eating disorders, along with a few other important points that give a more accurate picture of what an eating disorder is really like. This ties in with my research into treatment methods because I feel that the social stigma, lack of compassion, and overall ignorance about eating disorders has a huge impact on how patients are treated, if they get treated at all. Despite the fact that eating disorders are so prevalent, they receive very little research attention and funding compared to other mental illnesses. Just to give you an example, the National Eating Disorders Association reported that the research dollars spent on Alzheimer’s Disease in 2011 (which affects 5.1 million people in the country) totaled $450 million dollars, for Schizophrenia (which affects 3.4 millions people) the funds totaled $276 million dollars – and for eating disorders, which affect 30 million people, the research funding was a mere $28 million dollars in comparison (NEDA, 2012). This has huge implications for treatment possibilities because when there are less research efforts, there are fewer effective treatments developed and much less social and public awareness about the disease itself. As a result of that, people who suffer from eating disorders feel alienated, judged, and afraid to seek help (provided, of course, that there even is specialized help where they live). The point of Eating Disorder Awareness week is to get this information out there to people who would otherwise not know, and to be advocates for those who are struggling to be one for themselves, by getting the true information out there about what EDs are really like, and why they are just as “legitimate” a disease as Alzheimer’s and Schizophrenia.
In my experience there are 2 kinds of misconceptions in society when it comes to eating disorders – one is that they are not serious illnesses, are attention-seeking and vain, or are something that is the sufferers’ own fault. This is truly troubling for a lot of obvious reasons, a couple of which I have discussed in past posts – such as the fact that Anorexia and other eating disorders are in fact brain and biologically based rather than a subjective choice. But another fairly widely held misconception is one that gives me chills – that eating disorders are somehow glamorous, or enviable. I’m sure we’ve all heard instances of people joking when talking about food they are consuming (if they are cheating on their diet, for example) “oh yeah, if only I were anorexic I wouldn’t have this problem!” – or other variants on this form of “humor”. The extreme thinness that is glamorized in our media through fashion models and celebrities seems to have bled over onto the (sometimes) extreme thinness of very ill people who have eating disorders – and this is a dangerous association. While yes there are some celebrities and models who have EDs, many of them are either just born for that industry because they are naturally thin, or have the time and money to spend on expensive trainers and specific diets with meals delivered to their houses – and truly are living happy, healthy, and yes glamorous lives. The life of someone with a serious eating disorder such as anorexia is the farthest thing from glamorous. But because of the secrecy of the illnesses (that is perpetuated by the social stigma and lack of awareness/open discussion), the only aspect of it that people on the outside see is the extreme self control and sometimes thinness that is observable. In our culture, thinness is desirable – and often people envy those who have that waif-like figure, even if it is internal desire/jealousy that they don’t outwardly admit – this is all part of the desire to fit the mold of what our society has deemed “physically desirable”. It follows, then, that people can mistakenly envy those with anorexia based solely on their weight or body, because they are unaware of the seriously unpleasant details of what goes on in the daily life of the person inhabiting that body.
I know this from reading but also through my own experience – when I was at my lowest point weight-wise when I was sick, I received the most “compliments” on how good I looked and how much people envied my body, even though when I started losing weight I was already on the low end of a healthy weight. I’m using myself as an example here to make a tangible, real-life point: at this point I was at a BMI of 15.5 (which is dangerously underweight), and all the way down to that point I had people telling me I looked great and how did I do it, or that they wished they had as much self-discipline as me. I’ve had friends with EDs who’ve had the exact same experience. I can’t figure out if this is truly what people were seeing even though we were all clearly ill at the times (and that’s just what the look of “beauty” has come to in our culture) or if this is a case of feeling awkward not knowing what to say, and deciding to give a compliment. I realize that it could seem like the safest comment in that situation but I have to say for people who find themselves in this predicament – if you feel unable to give an honest comment or inquire as to the person’s well-being, it is best to say nothing at all. These kind of compliments are dangerous, because they do serve to encourage the disorder for the affected individual (“How to talk”, 2012).
In order to dispel this myth of desirability or glamour with regards to EDs, I think it’s important for people to understand what really goes on behind the scenes, in the daily lives of people with EDs – the lesser known, unpleasant facts. I read through a few different articles written by both professionals and people who’ve had eating disorders, and come up with some of the important things that people often don’t know. First on the list are some of the unpleasant physical effects: as a result of the body’s attempts to insulate itself in the face of fat loss, a thin layer of downy hair (called lanugo) grows over the surface of the entire body. The individual’s sensitivity to any amount of cold skyrockets, to the point where sitting in a warm room can still leave them unpleasantly cold, especially in the extremities such as feet and hands (a result of poor circulation). Hair starts to thin and fall out, and skin becomes dry and cracked. A lesser-known result of starvation is its’ effects on sleep – many people with anorexia have incredible insomnia and get very little sleep. Fear of social situations becomes a problem because of the possibility of being faced with food, and therefor sufferers isolate themselves almost completely from both family and friends – this results in almost no enjoyable social life or activities. Another physiological response to starvation is irritability and deep depression – both of which serve to perpetuate the eating disorder by making it difficult to find the motivation to recover or seek help. Anxieties increase across the board, most notably when faced with food or the prospect of eating.
Something that I think most people don’t know is that people with anorexia actually think about food almost constantly – this has also been shown to be a physiological response to starvation. When the brain is deprived of food to such an extreme, the person starts to obsess about food – reading cookbooks and poring over websites with recipes and pictures of food, cooking a lot for other people but never indulging in it oneself, and even hoarding food (even without the intent of eating it) (Garner, 2008). These are survival instincts that are a result of the body in starvation mode, in an attempt to encourage the person inhabiting the body to feed itself. Hormones are also affected by dietary restriction, and one of the results of that is little to no libido or sex-drive at all. For those sufferers who are in relationships, this can have devastating effects on their intimacy with their partner. Concentration is another thing that becomes compromised, partly due to the fact that the persons thoughts continually return to food (and their anxieties about planning what to eat or what not to eat), and partly because the brain becomes cloudy and damaged when it is not nourished. I read somewhere a few days ago that your brain uses 20-30% of the calories that you consume (sorry I can’t remember a source for this), so it makes sense that when it doesn’t receive that nourishment, it becomes highly compromised.
There are many other parts of the illness that I haven’t touched on – other serious health risks that appear throughout the course of a serious eating disorder (i.e. low heart rate, electrolyte imbalance, etc.), and the effects it can have on families and other relationships. There are many things that are just downright unpleasant, such as the fact that after a period of starvation, the body has a difficult time adjusting to eating again, which results in bloating, nausea, gas, and intestinal pain. The most insignificant decisions can seem impossible because of the brain’s decreased ability to function properly, and so deciding between a yogurt and an apple can be agonized over for more than an hour. These things may seem small and trivial, but I think they are important to get the overall picture of what these illnesses look like. Once you understand or know what it really must be like to live it, it’s hard to imagine someone “choosing it” as a “lifestyle”.
Imagine for a second that you are constantly consumed by thoughts of food, eating, or cooking, and spend much of your time looking at pictures of these things that you will not allow yourself to indulge in or even sample. Imagine, too, that for some reason that you can’t pinpoint yourself, you are doing strange things such a hiding or hoarding food, even if you can’t allow yourself to eat it. You can’t sleep because your body is so hungry, but you can’t feed it. What if every morning, getting out of bed and showering was a task that left you short of breath and leaning against the wall for support. It doesn’t sound so glamorous when you paint the actual picture of what life looks like for people who suffer from these illnesses. The fact that some people harbor this belief is proof, in my opinion, that there is a serious lack of awareness and information out there in our society about the truth of these illnesses . Take pro-anorexic websites, for example – which I will likely do a whole post on soon – their glorification of the aesthetic and “self-control” aspects of these disorders are so misguided. You will not find any information on these webpages detailing the horrible and unpleasant side effects (not to mention dangers) of starving yourself to death. The simple fact that there is even a movement calling itself “pro” anorexia is wrong. This isn’t an issue that is up for debate where you can take a side (like abortion with its pro-life or –choice) – it’s a devastating, life-threatening disease. Imagine if there were websites somehow promoting schizophrenia, or pro-autism pages; it doesn’t make sense. Pro-anorexia is part of the problem that perpetuates the idea that it is possible to decide to have an eating disorder. You can’t be “pro” something that doesn’t have sides to take. It is my hope in the awareness week actions that I’ve taken, such as sharing important information, articles and facts via social media and the Internet, that people might think twice when they are faced with discussing EDs. That maybe the next time they hear someone make a joke or snide comment about something like anorexia, they might interject with a few of the realities associated with these illnesses – so that people may realize that much like autism or schizophrenia, eating disorders aren’t something to joke about. In keeping with the tagline or theme of Awareness week this year, “everybody knows somebody”.
References
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